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Sunday, May 20, 2007

Youths' physological problem

Nowadays, the cases of youths’ suicide have become more and more serious. When we look at the numbers of these young lives, we must be shocked and get , the situation is warning us severely now and we need take actions immediately and the whole society including parents, schools and others to co-operate to prevent those potential cases and calm down the burning situation.

Youths’ decline psychological condition is a very important cause of their tragedies. The problem from studies, friendships and relationship with parents gives too much pressure on their young and innocent hearts. Once the pressure becomes out of the acceptable range, they minds will collapse easily and result in those tragedies like suicides.

To solve this problem we need to find out solutions in different ways and perspectives.

As parents who are the most important people to the children, their behaviors influence their children very much. For example, if the child doesn’t do well for an examination and parents scold them very badly, it may induce the youths to be disappointed with their parents and families. Family should offer warmth and protection to its members and is the best place for people to rest and restore. Children meet the failure, may be scolded by teachers already, when they require a place to rest and restore, the place they believe in—home-doesn’t welcome them at all, it must be a huge cut on their hearts. So parents should encourage children, motivate them to work hard, educate them mildly and gently, treat them as friends and communicate sincerely with believes in each other. It can help produce a harmonic family—a wonderful and ideal place for people to restore, so if youths meet any problems that cannot solve, they can get help easily and own a healthy psychological condition. This will prevents some extreme cases like suicides from happening.

Another important part of youths’ life is school. In school, they get used to the co-operation and group work; get to know friends, classmates and teachers. Those play an important role in their life as well. Actually, the youths’ most problems come from the school because of the study and friendship which are the most core elements in their students’ career and golden ages. Especially the study is the thorniest problem. The competitions among schools, classes and individuals are very fierce. Failures are very normal but some students have a fragile psychological condition and are not able to accept the result easily. In these cases, the school ought to take responsibility to take care of them when parents are not around, detect the problems in time and solve it. A talk, an encouragement and ‘hello’ may help them a lot. Teachers and classmates may have awareness of taking care others, avoid conflict as much as possible to reduce the may-be hurt in case that the pupil is very depressed.

All in all, youths’ problem is very serious and we had better prevent it immediately otherwise there will be more and more tragedies.

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